I am 26 and have been married for 9 months. I feel like my wife lost interest in sex several months ago. Now her grandma is hospitalized and in poor health. She might have to go to Poland in about 1 month from now to visit her again. I know she is worried about her grandma, but the loss of interest in sex began even before her grandma started going in and out of the hospital. I feel like I can't go much longer without sex. Now I am even thinking about trying to meet another woman for sex and only for sex, because I feel like I will never get anymore sex from my wife. I try to talk to her about our sex life but she is never really interested in talking about it and so we never have a serious discussion about the issue. I have little idea what to do- divorce? Find a "sex buddy", another woman just for sex, and stop having sex with my wife?