I am a married woman with one child. I know my husband does not like me. He does not want me around. I am only supposed to take care of his child and work like a domestic servant. He does not like to make love to me... its like 4 months since we last made love... he just bosses around. He likes to be courteous to his mother, bhaiya bhabhi and everybody else on this planet but he is really rude to me. Whenever I try calling him up a no. of times about ourselves he switches off his phone. Well that's about it then.

Leave him I don't know what else to say. Yeah it will be messy but aren't you worth more then that?

When my marriage got to that point I started sleeping on the sofa and treating him like a roommate. I had thought we were working it out a few times before I ever got to that point but the working it out never lasted more than a month or two and then he was back to running around with his buddies and rarely ever coming home. The last straw for me was when he started running around with a 15 year old girl.
He needs some type of ultimatum like if you won't talk it over with me about making our marriage work then we need to go to marriage counseling

Or else...

Pooja,

Tell me why you believe you merit treatment that you are having stuffed down your throat?

This hubby of yours, selected you above all other females in his world. When did you agree to be a parental nobody in the family dynamics.

If you don' recall agreeing to this, the next time he makes a Brian dead decision like letting you know that the child needs changing, thank hm for HS very courtesy in offering te change Th child, hand him the child and let's see what HUD dos.