Lately I just feel like my husband really doesn't care about me anymore... we have been together for a long time and I know things change a lot and all the romance and stuff fades off but it really sucks to feel like I do. I keep telling him we need to have a date night at least a couple times a month but he never plans anything... we hang out with his friends a lot especially on the weekend and I am tired of feeling like he doesn't want to spend time with just me. He doesn't treat me bad otherwise but I just don't know what else to do and frankly I am tired of trying... I have mentioned a marriage counselor but he doesn't seem interested. If anyone has any advice please help!!