I have been married 20 years and have 3 children. The last 5 years I have changed and become a more independent and confident person and I no longer love my husband I feel as if I have outgrown him and don't enjoy his company anymore. I want the best for him but I have no desire for that to be with me. I would like to see him meet another woman and be happy. He knows how I feel about him but he wants us to try and stick it out for the kids. To make things even more complicated I have met a man onine and we have talked about getting together and building a new life with each other. I don't know what to do. The children are my main focus and I only think about how they will handle a separation or divorce. I know that I am being selfish in wanting a fresh start. I am only thinking about myself but I still want to be happy. I am totally distracted with these thoughts and this has been my focus for 2 years now. I have known this other man for 2 years. Just want some advice and see if anyone else has ever been in this situation. Thanks