I've been married to my husband for three years now, and he is not who he used to be. He tells me he loves me, but he dosen't show it.Most of the time I feel like I don't excist around him. I'm all about love, hugs and kisses, but he won't give me that attention.
Sometimes I get angry at him for treating me like I'm nobody, I even tried to explain to him how that makes me feel, but he won't change.
I get so upset at times, but he just doesn't get it. I love him and wouldn't want anybody else, but sometimes I wonder, is this what I'm going to have to deal with the rest of my life.
Also we have a one and a two year old, and to me it seems like they can tell if we are getting along or not, my one year old is never happy when I'm not, and they don't deserve that, I try to just be happy around them, but sometimes that is the hardest thing to do. If you're broken on the inside, how are you going to act like everything is fine on the outside.
Is there anyone out there who can give me some advice, on what I can do. Or maybe it's common for guys to be like that. Or maybe I'm doing something wrong, I'm willing to do what it takes to have a better relationship with my husband. My kids don't deserve grougy parents.