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pumkin2 · Jan 30, 2007, 01:17 PM

Hello,
I have a question I have been married for 1 year now and I have been with my spouse all along 5 years. We recently have been going out to a club where a friend of mine sings, I have noticed him watching her, NOW I'm not too sure if he is watching her because she is singing or is he watching her because he is attracted to her.. when he watches her I mean he watches her every move... should I be concerned?
Annoymous..

manimuth · Jan 30, 2007, 06:09 PM

Wow... just from the title of your question, I feel that maybe you are over thinking this one. How can you possibly tell anything from "his eyes" when he is watching someone performing (who is meant to be watched)? Are there other reasons or signs that your sixth sense is picking up? Has he given you a reason for you to be worried that he is checking her out? Is this your insecurities making you paranoid? Finally, it is perfectly normal for men and women to "check out" members of the opposite sex without being in any way unfaithful to their partners. It is human nature.

Fr_Chuck · Jan 30, 2007, 07:03 PM

Men watch women, I do it, all men do it, many will not admit it.

If there is a pretty girl on stage performing all men will be watching them that is why they dress and act the way they do on stage

pumkin2 · Jan 31, 2007, 07:56 AM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Men watch women, I do it, all men do it, many will not admit it.

If there is a pretty girl on stage performing all men will be watching them that is why they dress and act the way they do on stage

Thank you for youe support, I guess I am kindof over reacting just a bit, I guess I just needed to hear it.

pumkin2 · Jan 31, 2007, 07:58 AM

Originally Posted by manimuth

Wow...just from the title of your question, I feel that maybe you are over thinking this one. How can you possibly tell anything from "his eyes" when he is watching someone performing (who is meant to be watched)? Are there other reasons or signs that your sixth sense is picking up? Has he given you a reason for you to be worried that he is checking her out? Is this your insecurities making you paranoid? Finally, it is perfectly normal for men and women to "check out" members of the opposite sex without being in any way unfaithful to their partners. It is human nature.

I guess your right, I didn't really look at it as you look at it, it's just he was my first boyfriend and my first kiss and now my husband... I guess the fact that it looks like he's "checking her out" is kind of hard for me to understand. But I guess I have to stop this nonsense if I want to keep my marriage together... you think?

talaniman · Jan 31, 2007, 08:25 AM

Originally Posted by pumkin2

I guess your right, i didn't really look at it as you look at it, it's just he was my first boyfriend and my first kiss and now my husband...i guess the fact that it looks like he's "checking her out" is kinda hard for me to understand. but i guess i have to stop this nonsense if i want to keep my marriage together.....you think?

Try not to be insecure over small insignificant things. All men love to look. You should be more worried if he leaves the toilet seat up, or leaves his funky draws in the middle of the floor like I do. See how lucky you are??

pumkin2 · Jan 31, 2007, 10:34 AM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Try not to be insecure over small insignificant things. All men love to look. You should be more worried if he leaves the toilet seat up, or leaves his funky draws in the middle of the floor like I do. See how lucky you are???

Yeah I guess, your right like the others, thank so so much for your help... I have to stop be insecure...