I have been in a releationship with a woman for a year and she is bothering me about marriage already. I like a lot of things about her but she has no goal aside from being a model at 26. She also has two kids while I have none. Don't get me wrong, the kid thig does bother me but what really bothers me is the model thing, Does she expect me to take care of everything or what... how do I try to convince her to do something more serious with her life. Just to let people know, I am in the military and have completed college.