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    flowerchildfala Posts: 96, Reputation: 16
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    Nov 23, 2010, 10:25 PM
    Help, I was a bad muslim!
    Ok so I did a huge sin, and I'm having so much trouble with the guilt and regret. I had a muslim boyfriend in the past and we were physical, I gave him my body and he was my first for everything! Then he dumped me and disappeared from my life. I was so heartbroken because he promised we would get married and now I just feel like a really bad muslim. I keep asking allah for forgiveness but I cann't seem to let it go or forgive myself, it has affected me so badly. I feel so digusted with myself and myself esteem has dropped! I feel very used by him and I have so many guys asking me to get engaged and married to them now as I am in my mid 20's and I keep saying no even though they are really good muslim guys and would be great husbands because I feel like I don't deserve a good person and because I feel bad knowing that I shared something so special with someone who didn't care about and now I cann't share the experience with a husband who truly cares and loves me. I really need some advice from other muslims about what to do right now, because I hate feeling like this!!
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    gara Posts: 117, Reputation: 26
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    Dec 8, 2010, 01:34 AM
    I'm sorry to hear that , that guy will suffer in his life and never reach any where in life , you are the only one who knows how to heal yourself and move on , I want you to talk to some close to your family, I don't have answer for you only to move on and talk some one in your family that you really trust
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    Feb 20, 2012, 05:01 PM
    Allah forguive mistakes , I know how do you feel , but you're sorry and you're feeling guelty , so that's it , it's time now try to forget and begin a new life , try to be a good muslimi , and trust me you are a good one because you're feeling that much guelty
    good luck may allah e with you =)

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