You can only be a victim if you stand there and allow it. There are cures for the cyber bullying. You do not log into the chat where you are being bullied, you stand up for yourself and say enough is enough, you report the people who are bullying you the moderators of the site you are on, and you can simply just NOT go there anymore!
About your friend - just because he wants you to become a bully does not mean you have to be. Stand up for yourself and if you lose his friendship, you did not have much of a friend to begin with. Honest.
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