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    hannapowers Posts: 16, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 26, 2009, 04:01 PM
    Reading someone's blog without their knowledge.
    I found a "friends" blog, she didn't know I found it and I read it, I guess I shouldn't have read it but my reasoning was that it was public thus meant to be read. I found out that she was not really the person she was pretending to be. Now she knows I read the blog. She feels that I violated her. What is your opinion?
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    Jan 26, 2009, 04:09 PM

    If it is on the Internet, it was not meant to be too Private. She may have wanted you to read it, by accident.
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    Jan 26, 2009, 06:11 PM

    Hi,
    Public is public.
    "Better to never speak and never let it be known what a fool you are, than to open your mouth and prove it." Erronously attributed to Mark Twain.
    That should sum it it up!
    I can truly say that I am not interested in what was said,or the tone; but take it all with a grain of salt.
    Peace,
    Clarke
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    Jan 27, 2009, 04:33 AM
    The content of the blog is not important. I guess I am looking for vindication, she is in her 30's and is acting like I broke into her house and read her personal diary. My feeling is that it was a public blog, meant to be read. And now that I know who she really is I am not interested in being her friend at all anyway. Should I respond to her at all with an apology for not telling her I found it or just let it go and move on with my life?
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    Jan 27, 2009, 06:03 AM

    Maybe what she presented about herself was a crock, and you know it?
    She just needs to be honest.

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