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    chetanhero Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 22, 2013, 05:48 AM
    Full confusion. What to do now?
    I am looking for nice gal to get married in arya vysya community. I met one gal through my friend who is a doctor. She is very nice with me. The first day we met in coffee day, had lunchin hyderabad house. She is enquiring everything about me and told her father is owing 5cr and looking for someone whose property is above that. I told I am from middle class, then other two days we became very close but I put one message in little odd way asking if she really likes me or not, because she moved very close with me those three days.

    I am emotionally connected to her in very short time. She just replied its her parents wish then stopped replying me. Again I put her message saying why she is doing dramas without replying me. She scolded me for asking like that. Then she told she lost one match which her father is very intrested in because their uncles gotras are same. Midunakula. Then I found mine also the same and she is saying as per sastra we can't get married.

    Anyway we have differences. Financially now there is problem as per sastra also. What to do now? Should I leave her or just be friends with her or try to convince her to marry me?
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    Jul 22, 2013, 06:06 AM
    Be friends but don't push. She sounds like she isn't free to decide. You don't want to scare her off. She's abiding by her dads wishes and pushing her for anything different could cause to having her feel torn and confused.
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    Jul 22, 2013, 09:10 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Be friends but don't push. She sounds like she isn't free to decide. You don't want to scare her off. She's abiding by her dads wishes and pushing her for anything different could cause to having her feel torn and confused.
    Thanks for your reply... u r rit.. and I will be friends with her nowon..
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    Jul 22, 2013, 09:39 AM
    I would move to the next opportunity for love, romance, and dating. You met her, you will meet others.
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    Jul 22, 2013, 09:51 AM
    Her father is owing or is owning?
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    Jul 23, 2013, 09:39 AM
    Don't look at her 5cr. Simply this girl is not independent and you need a wife. So discuss with your parents or who ever in family you are comfortable with. They will help you to find suitable match. Move on and don't be so fast next time. 3 days are nothing to get close and understand someone. Good luck.

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