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    #21

    Jan 17, 2011, 10:56 AM
    She just gave birth. A mother is someone who is there for there son.
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    #22

    Jan 17, 2011, 10:56 AM
    Oh, so your "I make 5x more then her" actually includes your wife's income then? And on 13k a year that woman can still manage to pay half of everything for her child and still manages to see him once a month? Dude, like I said your just being a d***. I get it she's an ex for a reason but using your child as a means to seek revenge, or whatever your calling it, against her is vile at best. Your custody agreement already benefits you. Let it be.
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    #23

    Jan 17, 2011, 10:57 AM
    I have full custody I am the one who is running the show and make all decisions with my son.
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    #24

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:00 AM
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    No that is just my pay, I'm not including my wife's income.
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    #25

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:01 AM
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    Her income has nothing to do with this. And his mom or whatever you want to call her drives 1000 miles here and back once a month to see him.
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    #26

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:04 AM
    And like I said, you already have an agreement that fully benefits you. And your getting more from her then you would get from child support because of her low income. You can pursue getting child support if you want, but everything else she pays for ends. But the only way to figure that out is to do the math yourself. You were already given the calculator by someone else. Punch in the numbers and see for yourself.
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    #27

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:07 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tl0127 View Post
    She just gave birth. A mother is someone who is there for there son.
    It sounds like she wants to be there -- traveling 1000 miles to see him once a month and paying for half of what you tell her has been purchased (you are the one making the purchases and billing her, I presume -- do you give her receipt copies?).

    Just out of curiosity, why does she live 1000 miles away? Did she move, or did you?
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    #28

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:18 AM
    I usually buy and show her the receipts and she pays half. But this year she decided to buy some clothes for my son and my wife didn't agree with the clothes she bought, so that will not happen again.

    She is the one who moved. All of our family lives here and she said she did not won't to pull my son away from everything he has every thing he ever knew. That is why I have full custody and she has visitation.
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    #29

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tl0127 View Post
    I usually buy and show her the receipts and she pays half. But this year she decided to buy some clothes for my son and my wife didn't agree with the clothes she bought, so that will not happen again.
    And you refunded her the money she had spent?
    She is the one who moved.
    Why?
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    #30

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:26 AM
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    No then she just paid the difference of what I spent since it was more. But the clothes she bought was from the stores we buy from.

    Her new man is there.
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    #31

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:28 AM

    How old is this child?

    If she bought clothes from a store you shop at, why were the clothes rejected by your wife?
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    #32

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:30 AM
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    He is fixing to be 9 and I'm sorry she did not buy from the stores we buy from that is why my wife rejected them.
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    #33

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:33 AM

    What was wrong with the clothes she had bought?
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    #34

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:37 AM
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    Just not what we would buy.
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    #35

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:39 AM

    You're very angry with her, aren't you.
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    #36

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:50 AM
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    She is the one that left and moved. I have another wife,
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    #37

    Jan 17, 2011, 11:54 AM

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    She is the one that left and moved. I have another wife,

    You married before she moved.

    Another wife? You are married to both women?

    How long ago did the boy's mother move?
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    #38

    Jan 17, 2011, 01:33 PM

    Full custody does not mean you "run the show" you have a very wrong idea of what custody is, first there is legal custody and then there is physcial custody, And the mom can ask for things different if she wants.
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    #39

    Jan 17, 2011, 01:46 PM
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    No we were divorced in August 2007 and me and my current wife got married in oct of 2009. She moved in August of 2009.
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    #40

    Jan 17, 2011, 01:48 PM
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    I am the sole conservator of my son. She only has visitation.
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