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    JOSEPH SOTO Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    May 20, 2008, 04:21 PM
    Order of protection against me, no contact with kids
    My wife has served me an order of protection. It says no contact with children. The order runs from 5/19/08 to 10/2/08, that's 6 months. It runs pass my little girls graduation and her first day of middle school. How can I get the judge to one let me attain both events. Or go to court before October to settle the matter.please help father with hole in heart
    Thank you
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    May 20, 2008, 04:44 PM
    You are going to need a lawyer most likely. You need an emergency order to expidite the hearing. What does the order claim you have done ?
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    May 20, 2008, 04:46 PM
    So she got you served, now have you appealed it, showed the judge there is no evidence or reason for this
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    May 20, 2008, 05:12 PM
    No I have not appealed it ,got it yesterday.
    She claims I use drugs , I don't. She says I I'm abusive to her and now fears for her safety and the safety of my kids. Funny she was arrested last year for abusing our oldest.he is my stepson so I could not get this records from the police precent. She pleadguilty and went to anger management classes. I have never be in trouble with the law.
    I don't do drugs , I don't drink , I don't even smoke cigarettes.
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    May 20, 2008, 05:14 PM
    If you supply the dates and area where the arrest happened, they can look it up.
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    May 20, 2008, 05:21 PM
    She was arrested last year on mothers day, 46th precent ,that was a Friday so she spent three day in the precent , then went to court on Monday. Family court in the bronx
    Thank you very much
    She says I'm not involved in there lives, which is bull I take my two oldest to school every day since kindergarten, one is 15 and the other is 10 now
    I also have been paying child surpport for two years now even due I live with her , is that right
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    May 20, 2008, 05:34 PM
    If you go to their court index you may be able to put her name in a search and see where she has been arrested and print it off for proof. I know where I live we can access partial information of anything that goes before a judge or refree.
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    May 20, 2008, 05:50 PM
    Thank you very much . Not to sound soft , I have been crying since I got this order.
    Hard to stop. I'm at work so ill hit you guys when I get a chance and if its o.k I'm going to send lots of people to this site . It rocks
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    May 20, 2008, 06:08 PM
    Again thank you guys . I have been crying and throwing up. Not slept and this is day one of that order.
    I don't know if I was going to make it 6 months
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    May 20, 2008, 06:09 PM
    Also which court index ,on this site or in the actually court house.
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    May 20, 2008, 06:18 PM
    Whatever county you live in may have online court records. From your post I would guess that you live in a large city because you said "46th precent". I would think even if it is not online since it is public record you may be able to get a copy from the courthouse.
    Honestly if I were you and I had the money I would be hiring a lawyer.
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