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liz28 · Mar 30, 2009, 09:05 AM

This is why your husband should have used condoms if he didn't want to be a father. Having 3 baby now 4, mothers say about his character.

Nobody is abusing you. You just fail to accept the answers that was given.

You was already given reasons for terminating someone right and given information on what to do regarding child support, what more do you want?

LRE · Mar 30, 2009, 09:07 AM

Look I know what I HAVE READ on the TN.GOV website and that's all the laws in TN. You don't know crap I know what I have learned in college probably something you haven't done and I know the laws I haved reviewed and in case you didn't know all states are different because I now live in indianapolis and the laws here are totally different in Tn so when you get some education in TN laws in child support then try and tell me something. I am here for help not for you to be a head. So good Bye

stevetcg · Mar 30, 2009, 09:08 AM

Originally Posted by LRE

Look i know what I HAVE READ on the TN.GOV website and thats all the laws in TN. You dont know crap i know what i have learned in college probably something you havent done and i know the laws i haved reviewed and in case you didnt know all states are different because i now live in indianapolis and the laws here are totally different in Tn so when you get some education in TN laws in child support then try and tell me something. I am here for help not for you to be a head. So good Bye

Well, if you already have all the answers you must not need us.

Good luck.

danielnoahsmommy · Mar 30, 2009, 09:11 AM

Lre, just so you know your income can be taken and used toward child support in a form of a garishmet as well. You make think your husband made a mistake... three babies with more than one mother and then not supporting them in anyway shows a lack of character.

LRE · Mar 30, 2009, 09:11 AM

Steve the support being paid is not the issue he does have to pay it I know that but THE LAWS ARE NOT BEING FOLLOWED!! And all I wanted was other options on how to go about doing it. Not for a people to "think" they know what they are talking about to just blab on and talk down on my husband

stevetcg · Mar 30, 2009, 09:12 AM

Originally Posted by LRE

Steve the support being payed is not the issue he does have to pay it i know that but THE LAWS ARE NOT BEING FOLLOWED!!!!!!!! and all i wanted was other options on how to go about doing it. Not for a people to "think" they know what they are talking about to just blab on and talk down on my husband

Again, please cite the laws that are not being followed.

danielnoahsmommy · Mar 30, 2009, 09:13 AM

No one is talking down on your husband.. we are basing our answers on the info given.

LRE · Mar 30, 2009, 09:15 AM

danielnoahsmommy, He is paying childsupport and has never stopped it was coming out of unemployement when he was not working his support is being paid all 1,000 dollars of it each month. He is supporting them so his character tells me even though its not done right he is still taking care of them

danielnoahsmommy · Mar 30, 2009, 09:16 AM

Where is the love!

LRE · Mar 30, 2009, 09:16 AM

1) Its not being based off both incomes
2)We never received paper work for a review
3) The first child is always granted more then the rest and he is not the third child receives about 300 dollars more than he is

Justwantfair · Mar 30, 2009, 09:20 AM

That just means that mother three is more deligent then mother one actually.

LRE · Mar 30, 2009, 09:20 AM

He does love them but has grown apart from them because they don't want to spend time with them and the mothers don't won't him to have anything to do with the children.

Fr_Chuck · Mar 30, 2009, 09:21 AM

TN is one of the states that will put you in jail very quickly for not paying child support, And I am sure you were told this, but if, even if, somehow he was allowed to give up his rights, ( unless someone adopted the child) he will always have to pay support.

But I would say from a moral side of it, if you only live 400 miles, he should be seeing the child at least 2 times a year, no excuse what so ever.

But as you seem to refuse to accept there is no way at all he can just give up his rights, the other parent can take it away in some cases, prison time, abusive, danager to the child and more.

stevetcg · Mar 30, 2009, 09:21 AM

Originally Posted by LRE

1) Its not being based off both incomes
2)We never recieved paper work for a review
3) The first child is always granted more then the rest and he is not the third child recieves about 300 dollars more than he is

What review? You mean the review that said you were in arrears and the amount was adjusted to pay back support?

As for who gets what, there are 3 different courts handling 3 different cases. It is up to your husband to attend ALL of those hearings and fill out whatever paperwork is required. If you are dealing with multiple states it is possible that the laws are handled differently in each so just because TN law says first kids gets more doesn't mean that the court that has jurisdiction over the 3rd agrees.

Do you have a lawyer? I'd get one.

LRE · Mar 30, 2009, 09:21 AM

Wantitfair, exactly what do you mean? Can you explain a little more

stevetcg · Mar 30, 2009, 09:22 AM

Originally Posted by LRE

He does love them but has grown apart from them because they dont want to spend time with them and the mothers dont wont him to have anything to do with the children.

The mother's don't get a say in the matter if your husband wanted to actually see them.

danielnoahsmommy · Mar 30, 2009, 09:24 AM

Maybe your husbands life would be better if he fought as much to see his children... maybe then the moms would give him a break.

LRE · Mar 30, 2009, 09:25 AM

Steve, a review is where your income and expense are reported. The other is called like a payment coupon and it has the amount that is paid every month and then below that it has a place where 50 dollars is added to it for arrears that he has.

liz28 · Mar 30, 2009, 09:26 AM

Originally Posted by danielnoahsmommy

where is the love!

There is no love. He doesn't want to be bother with them. If he did he could've march himself down to court for visitations.

However, he is a good father to the child they have together. I sure he is and hope she wouldn't stay with him if he wasn't.

To the OP, again if your sure the courts are wrong than go and get a family that specialize in family law. Maybe than and other then you would understand things.

Best of Luck!

LRE · Mar 30, 2009, 09:27 AM

He got his children every weekend that he was suppose towhen we lived in the state they live in. The moms will never give him a break because they hate the fact we got married and have a child of our own.