Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    honda_kid88's Avatar
    honda_kid88 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Dec 29, 2006, 11:07 AM
    Dhs child needs help
    Hi my name is kelly and my girlfriend who I am currently engaged to is in dhs custody me and her are about to have a baby. She gets more and more depressed every day and just wants out where they can't control her like they are. I am forbidden to talk to her see her and she is not even aloud outside of the house. She only gets 2 phone calls a week for 10 min. each. This time has to cover her mother and her 3 siblings. She as studyed for her ged but they purposely waited on the paperwork so she could not get her ged before the baby is born. She is due in February and has no way out me and her want to get married and I was wondering what would have to be done to get us two married or her amancipated. I have a place in my home for her and the baby and she even has more say in what happens to my room in painting and what kind of furniture goes into it. But I would just like to know what kind of loop holes I would have to jump throug too get us married or get her amancipated. Any help whould be greatly apreicated and if you would like to talk to me on the phone just say so and give me a number and time to get ahold of you. Thank you for any help or information:(
    J_9's Avatar
    J_9 Posts: 40,298, Reputation: 5646
    Expert
    		  
    #2

    Dec 29, 2006, 11:10 AM
    What are your ages?
    honda_kid88's Avatar
    honda_kid88 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Dec 29, 2006, 11:30 AM
    I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 16 the baby was conceived when I was 17 and she was 15 so they couldn't get statatory rap on me which is very good because I do believe if this is truly love he was made of the love we had for one another.
    s_cianci's Avatar
    s_cianci Posts: 5,472, Reputation: 760
    Uber Member
    		  
    #4

    Jan 1, 2007, 08:33 PM
    How old is your girlfriend? Usually, when a girl becomes a mother, she is automatically emancipated which would release dhs from continuing to have custody of her. You may need to talk with a lawyer to be sure and find out what rights you and she have.
    honda_kid88's Avatar
    honda_kid88 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #5

    Jan 3, 2007, 09:36 PM
    Sorry if I havee confused you but she is 16 now and apparently dhs has to have profe that she can support her self and the baby with housing and all the bills that some one whould face if living on their own. If you know of any thing about being able to get her amancipated on my behalfe then please let me know. I really have to get her out for her mental health and phsical health she is really in need. Every day I hear her cry because of the isolation and it hurts to know I can't do something that is why I sought help on the issue but thanks for all your help let me know if you know anything else thank you
    Fr_Chuck's Avatar
    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
    Expert
    		  
    #6

    Jan 3, 2007, 09:53 PM
    I want to say you are doing a right thing sticking up for her and sticking with her, too many young men don't, which is why we have as many relationshiop questions here as we do.

    Keep doing all you can, it is hard, I don't have a good legal answer, beyond getting an attorney for you and her, DHS has many rules, and often government people that only care about the dotting of "I" and the such.

    Good luck and just do the most and best you can.
    davidnjulia's Avatar
    davidnjulia Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #7

    Mar 27, 2007, 08:01 PM
    For complaints against OKLAHOMA DHS


    Fax letters of complaints To the Inspector General at 1-405-522-4642. Thank you all for your support.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Child support for child out of wedlock [ 8 Answers ]

My friend has been dating a man who is a millionaire(really) for two years. He is married and has two kids with wife. He has been financially supporting her all this time. Her role was to be available to jet set the world with him at a moments notice and of course look good and sleep with him. ...

Child Support and Child Custody [ 7 Answers ]

I was wondering If child support and child custody are the same. I have a six year old daughter and I want to see her badly but her mother is holding child support over my head. I'm not saying she shouldn't but I have given her money on many occasions and for a year consitantly. Yet she refuses to...

Bio father rights/abandonment of child/child support? [ 6 Answers ]

I am 6 weeks pregnant and the father is my ex boyfriend. I reached out to him 3 different times to see how he felt about this and what his interest would be in terms of involvement with his child. He has been quite verbally hostile and told me to die and other choice things. What time frame...

Child Support after child is 18 yrs. Of age [ 5 Answers ]

If there is a court order in a divorce decree that the spouse is to pay child support until the child is 18 yrs. Old or until out of school, but the child support was never received, nor was it taken before Family and Children's services to enforce it to be done, is it possible years later (child...

How can I adopt a child (not my biological child) from my ex [ 2 Answers ]

When I met my ex, she has a 2 yrs old child. While we were married, the child start to think of me as his dad and I've kept that relationship even after our divorce. Now, we are divorced, but the child is with me and my ex and has never seen his biological father. My ex is feeling sick now, and...

View more questions Search