Originally Posted by
KarynG234
I don't believe you understand my post be cause if you read it you will see that the facts are that the parents were never married and there was never a custody order Ever granted... The mothe notarized a paper giving me all rights to care for the child and the Order of protection granted me temporary custody.
The protection order was granted because my granddaughter testified to abuse
I was granted temp custody on August 7 in Illinois and after being notified of that my son convinced the mother to sign a custody agreement with him and filed it in va on sept 5
Therefore I was granted temp custody FIRST
I have to agree with cdad here.
1) The paper the mother signed has no legal bearing until and unless ratified by a court. Notarization only means that a notary verified her identity, it has no force of law. The Illinois court issued a temporary order until it could have a full hearing.
2) At the full hearing, the IL court probably realized it had no jurisdiction since the child's home state is VA. Since there a filing had been made in VA, the IL court had to defer to that. So it didn't matter that you filed first. Had you filed first in VA that would be a different matter.
Bottom line is the IL court is effectively out of it. They have no jurisdiction. That's why your attorney advised you to hire a VA attorney. I think your granddaughter now has to report the abuse to a school counselor. They will be required to report it and Family Services will get involved. At that point, you need to let VA Family Services know you are willing to take custody.
But there is a big risk here. If the VA agency does not find reason to pull the child from your son's care, he can follow through on his threat to cut you off from your granddaughter. And there will be nothing you can do about it.