I am pregnant and the babies father is going after custody or visitation when the child is born. He is very abusive and does have a violent record from the past. He is been making many threats towards me and my unborn child. He has even stated that once he has the child in his hands he stated that he would mess the child up in the head to get back at me for leaving him and that he may even run away with the child. This is definitely someone that should never be left alone with a child. Unfortunately, I wish I was able to see that sooner. I also am wondering if it is possible or how difficult it would be for him to get any custody or visitation if his name is not put on the birth certificate.