I was 17 when my daughter was born; my daughter’s mother was 16. We had a lot of prob
I was on my teenage years when my daughter was born; my daughter’s mother was also a teen. We had a lot of problems and decided to go separate ways. The lady and her family took me into court, I attended two sections, but the last section they mentioned to the judge that I was an illegal immigrant, which I was. I decided not to come back to court, because I was afraid I could be deported out of this country and I would never be able to see my daughter again. The time passed and I tried to see my daughter but they wouldn't allow me. I would send her money, but still I couldn't get any visitation. I tried and tried until my daughter was eight years old, and then I felt really frustrated, everything was a problem with my daughters mother, she would send me phone #s supposedly telling me that I could speak to my daughter, but It never happened. I decided to give up. Two weeks ago I found my daughter, and met with her, we were both really happy, but again the mother is in the middle and started telling my daughter things that don’t make sense. The only thing she wants is money. I don’t mind helping my daughter financially, but I think the mother is guilty from everything that happened to us. After two weeks my daughter doesn't want to speak to me anymore and I feel frustrated again, this is really painful for me, I didn't tell my daughter why I decided to step aside, because I truly don’t want to hurt her. Advice what are my legal rights and what are the laws as far as child support obligations(NY city)?
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