I work in a small office of 8, and we are pretty close-knit. My boss's daughter is graduating this year, and so is my son. My boss is not inviting me or any of the other women to his daughter's graduation party - - only the other 2 attorneys in the office. What is the appropriate thing to do, should I send his daughter a card in the mail? I have worked for this man for 12 years, and I really don't know how to feel or what to do!

Also, the other women and I have always invited the entire office to weddings, graduations, etc. of our children, including the 3 guys. Now that my boss has made it clear that he does not want to invite "the staff" to his daughter's party, do I continue to invite him to my son's graduation open house?