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Miss Sparkle · Nov 2, 2007, 06:23 AM

I'm just a little curious as to whether a well spoken individual is a more attractive prospective partner.

NeedKarma · Nov 2, 2007, 06:31 AM

To me it is. I've never dated a woman who was clueless (so to speak).

Miss Sparkle · Nov 2, 2007, 06:34 AM

If she was brought up in a more rough family would that influence your decision to start a relationship with her? Some women are intelligent, well spoken and well manered but their family don't follow that pattern. My family are a classic example of this. Im not a posh or privileged person and I've had to work very hard to get anywhere in life.

Miroku2010 · Nov 2, 2007, 06:36 AM

Originally Posted by Miss Sparkle

I'm just a little curious as to whether a well spoken individual is a more attractive prospective partner.

Man.
I don't really know the anwer but I will tell you this madam.
It all depends on the person's opinon. Some people may think otherwise. That is all I can tell you.

Miroku2010 · Nov 2, 2007, 06:37 AM

Forgive me I'm still young.

NeedKarma · Nov 2, 2007, 06:44 AM

Originally Posted by Miss Sparkle

If she was brought up in a more rough family would that influence your decision to start a relationship with her? Some women are intelligent, well spoken and well manered but their family dont follow that pattern. My family are a classic example of this. Im not a posh or privileged person and ive had to work very hard to get anywhere in life.

Actually I kind of did just that. My wife's family is from a very small town. Her dad drives a pick-up and hangs with the boys hunting and drinking but he's a great guy. Her mom is a little overbearing, small-town-know-everyone's-business kind of way, but harmless. My wife is a lawyer but that's not the reason I married her of course, she's kind, good to others, and a smart cookie.

tomder55 · Nov 2, 2007, 06:46 AM

My wife is more accomplished and more articulate than I am . To me that was a major attraction .

silentrascal · Nov 2, 2007, 07:11 AM

It depends on your orientation, I guess... for me as a heterosexual male, a well-articulated woman is one I'd prefer to be around, but it doesn't necessarily enhance or negate their attractiveness in my view.

Emland · Nov 2, 2007, 07:15 AM

My preferences lean that way, but to each his own.

Remember what Elvis said: "A little less conversation, a little more action please"

rpg219 · Nov 2, 2007, 07:27 AM

I would say that depends on how you converse with people. If you are a very articulated person, then it might get in the way or embarrass you if he is not. I know from experience! However, I consider it to just go towards the "worse" part of our vows :) I figure, if that's the worst it gets, we're doing pretty good. My husband grew up in the country and I'm a city girl from a snooty-poot family.
So, yes they can still be attractive... but at times you'll have to bite your tongue and maybe he'll pick up on a better vocabulary as time passes.

LearningAsIGo · Nov 5, 2007, 01:33 PM

I can say that my husband married me for me.

Both sides of my family are a handful to say the least. My husband and I are very similar, yet grew up in completely different environments. Our families helped make us who we are and as crazy as they can be, I still learned to become the person I am because of them.

In my honest opinion, confidence is the most attractive quality; no matter what you have been given in life. ;)