[42212]

My boyfriend and I have been together for four months going on five and every time we see each other (if my period isn't on) we have sex. I don't think the relationship is based on sex because we genuinely love and care for each other. Any advice for me? If you plan on judging me and my situation don't even bother answering because I have no time for negativity!

[J_9]

How old are the two of you?

[42212]

I'm 14 and he's 19.

[stanmatt]

Hmm why do you say you care about each other, what other things do you do for each other

[42212]

I Say It Because It's True .

[teacherjenn4]

Are your parents aware of your sexual relationship?

[42212]

No , but my grandpop knows we're together.

[teacherjenn4]

And your parents?

[42212]

They aren't around.

[backpack2389]

It's normal for your libido to be sky high at the beginning of a new relationship. What's not normal is your age difference. I know you don't want negativity but it has to be said... Not only is a 19 year old having sex with a 14 year old illegal but I think it verges on pedophilia. If you're worried about your relationship being based on sex I think you're justified because how much can a 19 year old young man have in common with a girl just barely in her teens. I advise you get a boyfriend at least a few years younger and please, for the sake of your future, use contraception. In fact, double up on it.

[stanmatt]

Backpack says the truth, lay all the facts here so we know if your love for each other is true or he is just using you for sex

[teacherjenn4]

They aren't around.

You don't want to hear anything negative, but I think your boyfriend is committing a crime because you are underage. You should be more concerned about becoming pregnant and having your child's father in jail for this.

[42212]

Pedophilia? Are You Serious? There Is Girls My Age Dating Way Older Guys Then This , We Have A Five Year Age Difference Big Deal , You Sound Real Judgemental !

[teacherjenn4]

Pedophilia? Are You Serious? There Is Girls My Age Dating Way Older Guys Then This , We Have A Five Year Age Difference Big Deal , You Sound Real Judgemental !

We are judgmental because he is an adult and you are 14. In many states, this is a crime.

[42212]

[QUOTE=teacherjenn4;3257589]You don't want to hear anything negative, but I think your boyfriend is committing a crime because you are underage. You should be more concerned about becoming pregnant and having your child's father in jail for this.

Well If " Committing A Crime " Is What You Want to Call It Fine And Neither One Of Us Are Stupid , I Know How To Prevent Pregnancy And Nothing You Just Said Answered My Question , So If You Don't Plan On Doing That Kick Rocks !

[42212]

backpack says the truth, lay all the facts here so we know if your love for each other is true or he is just using you for sex

If the love wasn't true we wouldn't be together clearly !

[teacherjenn4]

[QUOTE=42212;3257602]

You don't want to hear anything negative, but I think your boyfriend is committing a crime because you are underage. You should be more concerned about becoming pregnant and having your child's father in jail for this.

Well If " Committing A Crime " Is What You Wanna Call It Fine And Neither One Of Us Are Stupid , I Know How To Prevent Pregnancy And Nothing You Just Said Answered My Question , So If You Don't Plan On Doing That Kick Rocks !

What birth control is 100 percent effective?

[42212]

[QUOTE=teacherjenn4;3257607]

What birth control is 100 percent effective?

Did I Ever Say I Was On Birth Control? Because I Don't Recall .

[J_9]

The LAW in your location says that this man, yes he is a man, is committing a sexual crime and could be put away for a very long time. He could also carry the label of a sex offender for the rest of his life.

I understand that you agree to have sex with him, but the LAW says that he is committing statutory rape.

Have you ever heard the term "jail bait?" Well, you are jail bait and he is the predator.

[J_9]

Did I Ever Say I Was On Birth Control? Because I Don't Recall .

So you are trying to get pregnant?