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    Dec 18, 2011, 04:07 PM
    Why he lied to me?
    I was dating with my boyfriend about 8 months and all of a sudden he broke up with me. I had really hard time to understand why :( and after a months he called me and said he was sorry and he wanted to go back... I love him so I said that's OK. He asked me what I want for xmas and I said "just be loyal and honest and nice... That's all I want" he smailed.
    Last week I went to his home and we went out for dinner , we had really good time and we came home and I couldn't sleep. Something was wrong I could feel it. I didn't want to be fool. I checked his cell and I found out he went out with another girl at that nigh that he said he was out with his friends. It was not only one girl. He sent for two more girls picture of himself and got their pictures as well.
    I couldn't take it... I couldn't believe after all I had done for him , he did that to me... He woke up and I told him . He got mad cause I checked his cell and I said "you didn't leave any choice" how should I understand he was honest or not? He said its just a normal friendship. I said "why you playing with them , why you didn't let them know you have a girl friend and he said "he didn't care."
    I feel so fool
    I just don't know if he didn't want me back why he called me and wanted me , I just don't know why he lied :(
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    Dec 18, 2011, 05:05 PM
    He was out with friends, and perhaps ran into some girls and they were all hanging out, so he got photos taken with them.
    Sorry but it is possible he is telling the truth.

    Breaking his trust searching his phone is not respectful of him either.

    I am of course not saying he did not cheat either.
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    Dec 20, 2011, 12:14 AM
    He asked that girl, "where are you? what are you wearing? " it means he went somewhere else to meet her. He was not with any guy. It was only one girl. And two other girls were not there even. They just talked with him on phone and texted him and sent him their photos and he sent his photos to them. Anyway I had no way to prove but looking at his phone. He shouldn't have lied... I felt it.

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