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    Londoncalling22 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 15, 2012, 12:19 PM
    Why am I so upset?
    I have recently moved away from Uni and begun to peruse a career that I have always been sure I wanted to do.

    But not I am here I cry all the time. I just can't help it - I feel so sad.
    I have wanted to move to London and follow my plan for 10 years but now I'm doing it I am completely thrown and I don't even feel like it's right for me any more.

    I am away from my partner which I know doesn't help and I do feel quite lonely - but really I should be throwing myself into my work and enjoying it shouldn't I?

    What is wrong with me and how can I know if this is right or not?

    Any advice would be appreciated.

    Thanks.
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    Apr 15, 2012, 08:13 PM
    It sounds like you aren't used to the change yet, and your partner not being there is not helping. I'd suggest that you go out and do something off the wall, and fun!
    -hope I helped!
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    Apr 16, 2012, 04:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hannahrapier View Post
    it sounds like you arent used to the change yet, and your partner not being there is not helping. i'd suggest that you go out and do something off the wall, and fun!
    -hope i helped!
    Thank you x
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    Enigma1999 Posts: 2,223, Reputation: 1077
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    Apr 16, 2012, 04:57 PM
    There is NOTHING wrong with you. You completely changed your life around, and it is going to take some getting used to.

    It's also not like you moved from Illinois to New York... You moved to London. That's a big change.

    I really believe that you should just put yourself out there with work, volunteering, checking out the sites over there.

    Boy it sounds really exciting! Your new life and all. I have always wanted to visit London, and here you are living there. ;)

    This too shall pass. You will adjust. Just keep yourself busy and meet people.

    Best of luck.
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