I'm a quiet person.. There's naggy women who keep saying "why are you so quiet.. say something"

I'm a stranger adult and they're adults.. But why they treat me like a kid. I'm just a quiet person . Why do they want to shape me. I'm not even related to them, and they treat me like a kid.

I have a soft personality and they are loud outgoing, noisy. Seems most noisy people are disirespectful.

Anyway it makes me feel bad. They treat me like a kid just cause I'm not like them.