I really need some help, please.
I'm feeling really unsafe right now.
My older brother (19) and I (15) had just gotten into a pretty heated argument about my relationship with my father.
I had never had a very good relationship with him. He never really knew how to be a father to me. I have severe depression and anxiety and bipolar disorder. When 4 grade came around, it really kicked in and I was in and out of the hospital for my suicide attempts. I was admitted to St. cloud Children's home a few years later.
During that time, my father never called me, never wrote to me, my mother did and my aunt and uncle and my dad's parents. Not him.
I told my therapist that I wanted nothing to do with my father. He said I should try to have a relationship with him and I reluctantly agreed. During my home visits, I'd ask him if he wanted to watch a movie or play cards. He always said one more minute until it was time for me to go back.
One day, we had a family session with my mother and father and my therapist actually yelled at him for being a ty father.
I've told my mother how I feel and she knows and understands. She doesn't love him anymore and he doesn't help support the house. The only reason she stays with him is out of pity I suppose.
My younger brother (10) Isaiah, has a good relationship with my dad. My older brother doesn't but he still tries.
My father has said things to me that have caused me to cry for hours in my room. I am a bigger girl, and have always been pretty self conscious. I had told him that I wanted to be an actress and he said "maybe if you lost weight." My mom was livid and I couldn't stop crying. I hate him. I really do.
My older brother and I's relationship is no better.
When we were younger, I was about 9 or 10. He had touched me and inserted something into my butt.
Child protetive services came and investigated and said he didn't need to be removed. My okder brither has horrible anger issues and has attacked me more than enough. I still feel uncomfortable around him. My mom doesn't believe I do but I do. The ither day I called him out on something and he jokingly said "suck my ." I had gotten so afraid in the moment. It was a joke but I was so scared of him.
We were just talking and he was saying how I still did want to have a relationship with him and I said I didn't. I was very respectful during it. He had said something to the affect of "you're so retarded and stupid." He got so upset about the conversation that he said he was going to go before he killed someone.
He probabaly didn't mean it but I am just so miserable right now and don't know what to do. It's 3:31 am, I'm still freaking crying, my brother is downstairs and everyone else is asleep.
I just need sone help, please.
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