I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. For the past 8 months things have been difficult. I wasn't sure if I loved him anymore. We discussed it and decided to work at it. I am at a place now where I do love him but I'm just not sure if he is the one. We get on well when we are together but the problems start when we are out socliazing. He can get loud and animated and loves talking to everyone. This is his personality and I feel I should have accepted it at this stage but I just can't. I become uptight and agitated and snappy. It ruined all social occasions and we always end up fighting and ruining everyone Else's night. He shouldn't have to chance his personality but I am not sure if I will ever grow to accept it.
Is this a huge problem?