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    CristyB123 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 8, 2011, 08:24 PM
    Does he care about me?
    So me and my fiancˇ had been together for 2 years. The last few months were were struggling. I said I felt like I was doing everything. Working 2 jobs, rasining the toddler, and making sure all the bills were paid etc. I founf out through a friend he had been cheating. When I asked him he lied to my face and said he would never trade me in like his EX wife had done. Total lie! I miss him so much. He was not the ideal husband or father, but I miss him, and the attention he is giving his new girl is all I wanted. I kicked him out of the house, and he now lives with his new GF. I do not know how to move on. I asked him why? He said his new girl is 25, and she has no responsibilities and doesn't get upset with him when he doesn't get things done. To me it seems he couldn't handle the responsibilities of working full time, and a family. Why did he lie to me? Why didn't he just leave?
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    Nov 18, 2011, 04:42 PM
    The best way to forget him is get busy. You need to focus on yourself instead of focusing on him and saying why he did that, why he did not do this. You can't force him to change or come back to you, the only one you can change is YOU. Change the way you feel about him. When you imagine him put a big door in front of him and close the door. Tell yourself "MY time is more worth than spending a second for him." do something to make you happy. Take some classes if you have time. Go out with your friends. Its hard but its not impossible. You will find someone who deserve to be with you and love you the way you need to be loved. Good luck
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    Nov 20, 2011, 10:10 PM
    Because he did care about you- he just cares about himself more. Im sure he loves you but he rather put himself first and live a carefree life. It is not your fault you have responsibilities- you're a grown-up- you should! He is just escaping reality by being with a 25 year old that doesn't have to trully grow up yet. I know you miss him but you need someone ready to act their own age
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