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    suwei Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 21, 2007, 10:46 PM
    What should I do?
    I love my husband very much and we had married for about 2 years. We has 1cute baby recently. I know I love him very much but I don't think he love me, indeed I think he had never love me before. After we be together for about 5years and our parents said that we should get marry since we be together for so long. He agreed and so we registered. But after about half year we registered, I found out he changed and treat me bad. He stared 2hang out wit friends and he even went to hotel and stayed over night. When I found out he so mad at me and he asked for divorce. Im so heart broken because I never thought he would be like this. He told me he fall in love wit his dream girl and he said he never love me before. He's so mean and rude to me. When I found out they went out together I called that girl and she's a friend of mine! How chould they! She denied all and say that they are just friend and she'll never fall in love with him. Then I found out I was pragnent and I told him. At 1st he was mad at me and kept saying its my fault and mad at me because I was trying to make him back to me by using the baby. Then he said he was sorry and promised me he'll be good to me and our baby. But then I found out they still went out together and he keep messaging her and even keep her photo in his handphone and his office's computer! When I asked him about these he'll denied it and won't look at my face at all... I know he's lying to me and I'm so heart broken. What should I do?
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    Nov 21, 2007, 10:49 PM
    It sounds like you two need a marriage counselor. That would definitely be the first step. I hate to be so blunt, but it doesn't sound like he is really to be a father... at all.
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    Nov 27, 2007, 04:03 PM
    Honestly I think that you should kick him to the curb, and seek child support. Are you American??
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    Nov 27, 2007, 04:11 PM
    What do you want, if you want to try to make the relationship work, you have to get marriage counseling, if he will go, That will also mean he will want to make it work.

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