[landox]

My wife says she don't love me anymore and wants nothing to do with me. That she can't trust me no more. But she does not want me to leave to my friends. Wants me to stay living at home till I save up money to move out.

We have been fighting a lot but the last few days have been good. Have had no fighting, been playing games going out and buying xmas stuff for the kids and for her and the house.

So I can't tell if she really wants me to go, or if she is liking the changes. I have been trying to make stuff work out but at the same time she is talking to some guy at her work. She says it makes her feel better.

What should I do?

[Alty]

It sounds like she's made her decision to divorce you, and now that she has, she's content, and doesn't need to fight with your any more.

If she's seeing someone else, that's likely the reason she wants a divorce. It's hard to compete with a third party that's entered your marriage.

[talaniman]

Why doesn't she trust you any more? What are you fighting about?