[rainraw]

My wife left me because she said I drank too much, but she would let me drink if she wanted to. She even left me once because I would drink a few beers after work,she went back home to MI, she called me and said that she had made a mistake , and I needed to come and get her. She had no money to come back, her family drinks, and it was OK if I drank with them but not if I wanted too. A year later while camping out of the blue she said If you want to go and get some beer, that's OK with me. I did and the next day she goes off on me . I don't think I have a drinking problem, but her dad did drink himself to death. Am I TO BLAME??

[450donn]

Since booze appears to be a problem in her family, my suggestion would be to quit totally. Convince her that both of you should no longer drink. And if possible join a support group or get counselling.

[charlotte234s]

If you know it bothers her, don't drink without her. I don't know ifyou have a drinking poblem, that's something you need to decide for yorself.


Personally, I think drinking is really stupid. I've lost people I love to drinking and to solve all your problems, it'd be easiest to just not drink.

[peanut-21]

No your not to blame. But she might and worried that it will happen to you. She's showing concern the only way she knows how to.
I was like that with my boyfriend but came to relieze everything was OK and we got passed it. She has to come to a conclution on her own