My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years, been married less than a year. I didn't want to marry him in the first place, but I did anyway, knowing it was bad idea. My husband is a very lazy person, the last eight years he has never held a job longer than 90 days. He hasn't held a real job none this year, he got fired from his job in January, and haven't had one since. We have two daughters together and I also have a 8 year old son, that's not his. I'm getting sick and tired of taking cre of a grown man. I'm kind of sscared to leave him, because he is the stalker type. The last time we were separated he would lurk around my house and peep ino windows. I just want him away from me and out of my life. How should I go about getting a divorce only being married ninie months?