I live in Florida, I make more money than my husband. He is an alcoholic with 2 hospitilization with record of high blood alcohol, the hospitilization a direct consequence of alcohol. He has capacity for higher earning potential but has not chosen to seek a higher paying job. He has potential...

I'm asking this for a friend in TN - no really!:o My friend who is a highly paid professional has been married to a man for about 20 years. Although the hubs is also educated they made the choice to have him stay home and even homeschool their children (now college aged). NOW... the wife finds...