About 5 years ago I went through a bad divorce and lost everything. After this I didn't get involved with anyone and just played the field, if you're a guy you know what I'm talking about. No decent female wanted to get involved with me anyway because I was a mess lol. I stayed single and lonely for about 3 years until I stumbled on some ebooks at a nz mens help site themenschamber com. This started me on a new journey where I rediscovered who I was and became a new man. Not long after that a lovely beautiful woman walked into my life and because I was ready for her, we ended up dating and have been in a happy relationship for two years now.

It's been an interesting journey so far filled with unbelievable highs, intolerable lows and everything in between. So if your feeling like there's no hope, I'm here to let you know 'that if a mug like me could start over again, become a new person as well as find someone great to share his life with', anyone can.

With that said, if there's anyone else here who has a success story to share that can give some hope, direction, ideas and inspiration to those who are looking for it, please post here…

p.s hang in there, there is life after divorce

I haven't got any stories to share but can tell you I just enjoyed your post so much. You keep enjoying yourself and hoping and wishing and everything will be just as grand as you say it is.

My hat's off to you my friend. You have done something I wonder will ever happen for me again... a relationship. Right now I am in the middle of our divorce. It has left such
A bitter taste about trusting anyone. My confidence and hopes are suffering too. My kids
Keep me positive, but there has to be more.

I guess reading your story, and others, gives me hope that things will get better.

Thanks!

Nice post thanks x