I thought I had good communication with my wife. After several years of marriage she decided to move out. I pleaded for her not to leave, and for us to get counseling to save our marriage. She decided to leave and I don't know where she went off to. I have spoken with her about our Issues, and it seems she was in love with the idea of converting me to her religion, and it seems she isn't coming back. She has asked for me to stop overwhealming her with calls (I would call like 5 times a week). She told me she felt bad about not feeling worse in leaving.

I feel abandonded- don't know whether to file for divorce or just tough it out. Is there filing under abandonment in California?