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    Aug 12, 2009, 09:06 PM
    Yes! I had sex with my best friend. Now what?
    So... my best friend (male, 21) and I (female, 20) had sex. We have been best friends for about 7 years and all that has happened in the past is making out. He is leaving for Iraq so we were visiting one another and basically one thing lead to another. I'm not upset with having sex with him. I really enjoyed it. What bothers me is that I'm so damn in love with him. I have always been in love with him but now it's way worse. I just can't get it out of my head. I want to scream from the rooftops. We have talked about the sex and the love but not how the sex affected the love. I don't know if I take a risk and spill my guts or keep letting it take it's path. I'm scared of both routes. What if things are perfect? Than he is on his was to Iraq and what do I do about that? Ughhh help please.
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    Aug 12, 2009, 09:14 PM

    Either way he's leaving so what do you have to lose?

    What do you have to gain?

    Tell him how you feel, no use keeping this to yourself and being
    Miserable.
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    Aug 12, 2009, 09:15 PM
    Tell him how you feel. You will regret it if you don't.
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    Aug 13, 2009, 11:50 AM

    Tell him.
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