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    swannie7 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 20, 2009, 01:02 PM
    Why would a man stop talking to a woman he says he loves after 2 long years?
    We've been talking online for over 2 years, and all of a sudden he's stopped talking all together! I'm brokenhearted,and worried
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    Dec 20, 2009, 01:20 PM
    Could be that you were not the only one he was talking too and has met someone in real life..

    There could be any number of reasons,he's married,he's gone on holiday,his internet has been cut off...

    There's not much you can do about it.

    Try and not worry,and get out spend some time with your family and friends.
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    Dec 20, 2009, 01:30 PM
    I don't think anyone could tell you what's happened here. I take it you've never met in person? So,really you don't know anything about him apart from the things he's chosen to tell you.
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    Dec 20, 2009, 01:32 PM

    Or prehaps his wife found out, my estimate over 1/2 of the men "dating" online are married or living with someone.

    Perhaps he decided after 2 years this was not going somewhere and was wanting a real life date. That is also the issue with long distance, no one to snuggle with on a Saturday night. That is why at some point one person has to decide and be willing to move to where the other one is.

    And it is most likely a sign that you need to be moving on in real life
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    Dec 20, 2009, 04:48 PM

    Your online pal has other things to do, or maybe his computer is down for repairs. Maybe its time for you to get some fresh air. And some real people to have some real fun with.
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    Dec 22, 2009, 10:47 AM

    If he isn't talking, there's a good chance he doesn't want to talk. There's no use in being brokenhearted because a man wouldn't talk to you. You can't put much stock in a relationship that is just online chatting for 2 years straight, unless it's a friendship. I'm not saying you can't find love online, I'm saying that if you two were meant to be, you would think that you would've at least put forth the effort to have a meeting by now..
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    Jan 30, 2010, 01:49 PM
    I was wondering is this man from the U.S. or Canada?. I had the same thing happen to me not to long ago. I was wondering If it was the same man playing games with the both of us. I was starting to think he was married or living with someone. I'm sorry this happened to you. I know how you feel. He was my best friend! : (
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    Jan 31, 2010, 10:36 AM

    Swannie7,

    I'm sorry this happened to you. I will tell you that I have been very sad myself for losing my close friend just like you did. I miss him everyday because we would IM, emailed and talk on the phone for hours. I feel like something huge is missing in my day. I'm sending you a big hug because I know how you feel and I wish I could make it better for the both of us. Have a great week.
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    Jun 7, 2010, 09:16 AM
    a- because he's moody or busy. b- because he is uncomfortable, c-he realisizes it is not working, d- he not being honest with you, e- he's already in a committed relationship and he was cheating on her with you.

    Probobly some combination of the above. If this sonds like warning signs, you need to heed them for your own well being. Be free.

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