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    Apr 13, 2011, 07:44 AM
    Why does he act like he loves me but yet won't date me?
    Ok here goes there' s this guy I'm totally in love with (it is def not lust) he acts pretty much the same way but won't say it. But all in all what bothers me most is he won't date me. Because he won't date me I have went out on one date. He got all pissy about me going on out with another guy and even laughed when I found out the guy was a big drug user. But whenever I ask him about dating me he marks my flaws and says that's why he won't. Yet he gets upset if we don't talk on the phone nightly and if I don't want to talk long he gets sad and upset. He says you don't talk to your friends everyday until the wee hours of the morning? I told him no I don't and neither do most people. So if he has all these feelings why won't he date me? And how do you think he feels about me?
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    Apr 13, 2011, 08:02 AM

    He sounds weird,jealous and immature.

    How old is he?

    I wouldn't hang around waiting for someone who'points out my flaws' on a regular basis.

    I wouldn't date a drug user either.

    Conclusion,find nice,normal guys to date.
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    Apr 13, 2011, 06:15 PM
    Hes 32
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    Apr 14, 2011, 12:23 AM

    So he's old enough to know better.

    Again,he comes across as a weirdo,so I would move on and look for someone normal!!
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    Apr 14, 2011, 09:26 AM

    There's no reason for you to continue to play mind games with someone who's 32. When you first told the story, I thought he was a teenager.

    I sugges that you move on to better things in life and meet nicer people who won't play mind games with you, especially at that age.
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    Apr 14, 2011, 04:50 PM

    He is a complete waste of time and sounds like a weirdo to me.
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