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    coldshoulder Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 10, 2011, 08:59 AM
    Why did he leave me like that ?
    My boyfriend is 29 years old and I'm 20.. It all was going smoothly until he went out of town for a few days and stopped answering my calls. I messaged him so many times asking him what wrong but he wouldn't reply :( why did he leave me like that. He just disappears out of the blue. This was his way of breaking up with me.. I didn't even deserve a goodbye or any explanation. We were deeply in love with each other. And I could everything possible to be a good girlfriend. Still he left me like that :( why :(
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    Sep 10, 2011, 09:15 AM
    I say: man, he is one insensitive ****weed. You deserve way better than that, and what he did was inconsiderate and low. I will give you this... do not go back. If that is the way he treated you once he will probably do it again if not something worse. I am sorry for you and I hope you find someone who will treat you right.
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    Jake2008 Posts: 6,721, Reputation: 3460
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    Sep 11, 2011, 01:07 AM
    Sometimes, you just don't see it coming.

    Maybe he was just one of those people who couldn't step up, and break up. That he chose to sneak out the back door doesn't mean he was a bad person necessarily- he just doesn't have very good break up skills. Who does really.

    The point is, he's gone, right? He's make his intentions very clear by totally ignoring you, knowing that you would be confused, hurt, angry, and disappointed in his silent treatment. If guilt and doing the right thing doesn't persuade him to pick up the phone and talk to you, it isn't likely you will have any answers as to 'why' he did what he did.

    Should he come back into your life, please be cautious, and consider that what you have learned from being in a relationship with him, is not something you want to repeat. Don't set yourself up to be disappointed, and hurt again because you won't see it coming anymore than you did the first time.

    Experience is a good teacher, and time is a good healer.
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    lexiiloves Posts: 7, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 13, 2011, 02:56 PM
    Well first of all he is a man *****... unless he has a reson
    Maby he think he's not good enough for you and maby thinks that its best if he leaves you alone to get on with your life
    I'm sure from what you've said its not your fault
    Be strong and if you guys can't fix this then try to find someone else to take your mind off him

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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Sep 17, 2011, 07:11 PM
    How long were together?

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