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    dannapao26 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    May 18, 2009, 07:13 AM
    Why am I such a mess when it comes to guys?
    People say I'm really pretty and I think I'm pretty. I'm skinny , big boobs,
    No stomach. I'm smart, a little shy though, but I'm fun and funny. However, I can't get
    The guy I like to fall in love with me.

    I'm so in love with this guy I meet like 1 year ago. We used to date and hang out for
    Time and then after a time we stopped talking. He stop talking to me and I noticied
    He wasn't that interested so I never wrote back to him. Then, after 7 months he I'M
    Me and told me he misses me and he wanted to see me

    Now we're dating but he says he likes me a lot but he doesn't show it. He doesn't show he cares
    He sometimes call and sometimes text me but when he does and we texting each other he
    Stops talking to me out of no where with out telling me brb or ttyl or bye.
    I'm sooo confuseddd I don't know what to doo I love him so
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    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
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    #2

    May 18, 2009, 08:13 AM

    Very likely he could be I'Ming somebody else or doing something else. I think you should move on because guys that don't show that much interest generally aren't as interested as they claim.
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    liz28 Posts: 4,662, Reputation: 1034
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    May 18, 2009, 12:19 PM

    You can't get someone to fall in love you. This is a feeling that must come natural.

    You could be the most prettiest girl in the world and be the richest but these things doesn't mean a thing.

    It seems like you love this guy but you have to be careful who you fall in love with.

    This girl actions doesn't point towards love and he told you this as well. If he keeps breaking up with you for no reasons my question to you is "why are you keep taking him back?". Seems like you would know when enough is enough and when to walk away.

    Being in love is a wonderful thing but I wonder if your falling in love for all the wrong reasons. I think you just might be in love with the idea of it and just settle for anyone just to have someone.

    I for one isn't skinny. I wear a size ten and weight 154 lbs with a 5'7 - 5'8 frame. My stomach is wash board flat and I have small boods however what I lack in the boods department I make up in the butt department. I say my looks are average but no matter what my fiancé loves me for me. He loves the inside more than the outside.

    I think you need to look for a better quality of men. It really doesn't matter what you look like because beauty is skin deep and is in the eye of the beholder. When you see a guy is flaky you need to let go instead of holding on. Don't think your looks are going to keep a guy but as you see it can't.

    There is someone for everyone and it doesn't make sense to cry over spilled mi when you can just clean it up and go to the store to get another carton. Move on and get back into the dating sense and watch your feelings. And never settle for less and watch their actions more than their spoken words.

    Best of luck!
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    May 19, 2009, 10:47 PM

    1. if you are dating, you don't need to text all the time. You need to require more from men. 2. men shouldbe calling you, asking you out, and having fun when they are with you.
    3. its nice to talk on the phone, and simple texts once in awhile... but I thik people use text too much for main communication.
    4. have a life beyond him. I didn't know there was ettiqette for texting, I didn't know I needed to say I would be back if I didn't get my text right away! Hahahaha
    Anyway, look for a guy who will treat you with respect and show you that. He doesn't, so think about what you would like him to do... tell him, and go from there.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    May 20, 2009, 09:37 AM

    Your putting way too much importance, and high hopes, on someone who doesn't feel as you do.
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    May 20, 2009, 11:56 AM
    Cook him some food!

    That's how you get a man to fall in love. FOOD! Trust me , I'm a man =)

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    I am 1/2 of verytogher's first featured couple! check us out!

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