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    Feb 14, 2013, 08:32 PM
    What's with my ex bf's actions?
    Ok so my ex and me have started talking after a year of being apart. We have talked for a bit now but he started teasing me about hanging out with a guy one night that he knows I would never go there, saying stuff like "do you like him, having dates blah blah".
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    Feb 14, 2013, 09:38 PM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ck-696720.html

    Same guy?
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    Feb 14, 2013, 09:47 PM
    What exactly is your question?

    You want to know why he's saying what he's saying? Only he knows. Ask him. :)
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    Feb 14, 2013, 10:47 PM
    I can't ask haha I just want to no where its al going to be honest like we talking and stuff again and its bring back my feelings and why would he care if I liked someone anyway...

    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Hey , yeah it is the same guy, I haven't read that in ages awwh yeah its him, when I moved on he has come back in some form of way, I guess I was right in that
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    Feb 14, 2013, 11:04 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kateychitt View Post
    i can't ask haha i just wanna no where its al going to be honest like we talking and stuff again and its bring back my feelings and why would he care if i liked someone anyway...
    So you want a psychic reading? That's the only way we'd know why he would care if you like someone else, and where this is going. Only he knows why he's acting the way he is, and why. We can guess, but since you know him better than we do, your guess would be much more accurate.
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    Feb 14, 2013, 11:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    So you want a psychic reading? That's the only way we'd know why he would care if you like someone else, and where this is going. Only he knows why he's acting the way he is, and why. We can guess, but since you know him better than we do, your guess would be much more accurate.
    Quite true ,thanks! But just from the outside an ex of a yr suddenly talks to you afterseeing you and is the one trying... seems fishy to me
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    Feb 14, 2013, 11:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kateychitt View Post
    quite true ,thanks! but just from the outside an ex of a yr suddenly talks to you afterseeing you and is the one trying....seems fishy to me
    It seems fishy to me too. But, it doesn't necessarily mean what you think it means.

    We girls are always looking for signs to tell us what men really mean. Men, they're men, they usually say exactly what they mean. So, if he wanted to get back together with you, it's likely that he'd just tell you.

    Is he acting a bit jealous? Well, yes, but only a very little bit. Not enough that I'd say he wants you back. More like a guy that doesn't want you, but doesn't really want anyone else to have you either. That's not love.

    But, this is just my guess. Again, I have no idea what he's thinking. Only he knows that.
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    Feb 15, 2013, 08:00 AM
    He could just be teasing you. If he wanted you back I imagine he would ask you out again.
    Don't read anything in to this and if you want to know what his deal is, ask him.

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