Originally Posted by
michael alamo
I have an ex girlfriend whom I broke up with and didnt speak too for a year and a half. I found out that she got married a year after we broke up. We starting talking again which showed me that I made a mistake by breaking up with her and now i love her more then ever. This is true love for sure! I really believe that she is not in love with her husband and still in love with me because of her voice patterns when she talks about the two of us. I dont believe in divorce but I would give anything for a second chance. Should I tell her how i feel or just wait to see how the marriage goes?
"What do you say to the woman you love if she is married?" is the name of this post. Well, besides how are you? And things like that, nothing. If the "marriage isn't working" as you say, that's not really your concern. You had your chance with this girl, and it's gone. You say YOU broke up with HER, so...
She is married now, and is completely off limits. Anything beyond small talk is inappropriate. Don't share your epiphany, or feelings, it might compromise her marriage.
If YOU were married to her, how would YOU feel if HE came up to her with this?
I'm sorry for being so blunt, and I know this is not what you wanted to hear, but I think you know it's not right.
If she was just DATING someone, maybe you could wait and hope, but it's simply too late now.
Think back as to why you broke up with her in the first place.
And try to shake this girl out of your head.
The world is full of girls who aren't married. Go find one.
Good luck to you.