Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    mizzies's Avatar
    mizzies Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Mar 18, 2012, 08:04 PM
    What do I do about an obsessed ex?
    Me and my ex boyfriend (nate) are dating again I broke up with because him he was flirting with one of my best friends I dated this other guy (austin) two days after I broke up with nate me and austin dated for 9 days then I broke up with him because he was one of those guys who are too close (txting me literally every ten minutes,calling me every half hour literally, and he tried to hold my hand,kiss me,hug me) and he knew I still liked nate. Austin would txt "what are you doing RIGHT NOW" I would say what I was doing and be like how about you then he wouldn't answer ten minutes later "What are you doing RIGHT NOW" I was annoyed so I broke up with him and now me and nate are dating. Austin knows me and nate are dating again and he acts like we are still dating I told him we aren't dating and I don't like him anymore he says I don't care I still like you. Then one day nate goes up to austin why he is obsessed with me he said "im not" but he still calls and texts. What do I do to get him to stop acting like me and him are dating? Nate knows I like him more than anything in the world! So what do I do ? BTW: I'm 13
    VirtuousPlume's Avatar
    VirtuousPlume Posts: 24, Reputation: 5
    New Member
    		  
    #2

    Mar 19, 2012, 05:47 PM
    I'd show his messages and insistence to his male friends, casually. Supposedly, they will tease him for it and he will feel too embarrassed to continue. Another idea would be to tell him you like guys who act mature and his attitude is just making you cry, since you thought he was a nicer guy. You could also phone his parents and ask them to teach their son how to act towards a girl and stop being an immature jerk.

    This should also teach you to not date guys you don't really like.
    Stellaw's Avatar
    Stellaw Posts: 171, Reputation: -1
    Junior Member
    		  
    #3

    Mar 30, 2012, 11:47 PM
    Is there a blocking system feature in your phone? If yes you could block him or change your phone number so that he can't contact you anymore and he can't butt in your life. Tell him that you need a mature person in your life.
    LegalBagle's Avatar
    LegalBagle Posts: 6, Reputation: 0
    New Member
    		  
    #4

    Mar 31, 2012, 12:58 AM
    Please keep your communication open with your parents. Do not respond to this boy's phone calls or texts... he'll get the message if he gets no response. You may want to ask a friend of his to act on your behalf, maybe someone a little older, to talk to him about learning to let go. If he threatens you or your current boyfriend, please notify the police or your principal, as it is considered cyber-bullying and is against the law. Do not let this boy bully you, name call you, or continue his behavior as it is destructive to your emotions and can lead to a confrontation. Usually, by ignoring his calls and texts, his behavior and negative attention-seeking will stop. Remember, if he doesn't stop-- tell your parents immediately. Good luck !
    Fr_Chuck's Avatar
    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
    Expert
    		  
    #5

    Mar 31, 2012, 04:32 AM
    Because you are jumping from one boyfriend to the other in one day. He expects you to jump back shortly.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Obsessed, and can't get over my EX. [ 3 Answers ]

In late 2010 me and my girlfriend of 9 years and the mother of my 6 year old son decided to separate. Soon after our separation I found out that during the end of our relationship she was seeing another man. It really felt like someone stabbed me in the heart and I didn't know how to deal with...

I'm obsessed with my ex [ 4 Answers ]

My ex and I finally called it quits about a month ago and we were together for only about 8 months. I seriously feel he was the only man I've ever fallen in love with. Our bond was so special. But things just didn't work out and our relationship started getting crazy and destructive because of some...

Obsessed with being first [ 2 Answers ]

My soon to be 5 year old is obsessed with being first at everything. First up the stairs, first to arrive at school, first on in the door, first walking up the block etc. I've talked to her teachers who say she does try to be first for projects, but will accept the "it's not your turn to be first...

Why am I so obsessed? [ 2 Answers ]

I got dumped by the girl of my dreams in April. I completely scared her away. I was moving way too fast and she left. I became totally obsessed with her. Now the obsession is with me. I think about how I screwed it up and I torture my myself every day. I'm having such a hard time with the...

Help! Am I obsessed? [ 60 Answers ]

I woke up today full of anxiety and just a general feeling of fear and I think its because I have a feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me because he's been acting differently lately. He's not as interested in sex as he used to be and he doesn't seem to want to talk to me or be with me as...

View more questions Search