OK... well I like this guy at my work, right. My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago, he wasn't happy... I guess? But when me and my ex were together I was talking to the guy from my work.. and I told him what was going on between me and my boyfriend. So the guy asks me to hang out so I did.. I mean as friends! We went to the beach and had an amazing time, well he would tell me things like your so beautiful keep you head up etc. well come to find out he's doing the same to my friend.. and I confonted him about it and he said that he's was just trying to be there for her.. but that the hell? I don't get it, we put it behind each other and now he flirts nonstop with me at work.. as for my friend she likes the guy I like.. but she has the boyfriend! I just need some answers and need to vent to people and maybe give me advise? HELP!:(

If both you and your friend like this one boy I would advise you not to let him become your boyfriend because that will mess up your friendship that you have with your friend OR you can sit down and have a talk with her about it and ask her if she wouldn't mind because if you and her are friends and you ended up being with him most likely she wouldn't like it and you and her friendship will mostlikely end or if not end then she would most likely be jealous!!
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Well I know that the other night (literally 2 nights ago) my guy friend was comforting me the same way this guy you're talking about was. And I have ALWAYS had a thing for him... He was telling me

(and I quote) "You are better than that, you love the guy, I get it, but you need to think of yourself once in a while instead of cutting yourself short."

It made me feel a lot better. But then (low and behold) I come out of my apartment and I hear giving the same damn words same lines to my friend who was sitting down on the couch about HER boyfriend. I wanted to kill the litlle bastard! So things were very... "ockward" between us until last night when I confronted him about it and he said that we both deserved better and he meant what he said to both of us BUTBUTBUT he said that he would never have the connection or feelings for her as he had towards me.

If this guy is going for you and flirting with you he wants YOU not this other girl and even if he said she was beautiful bla bla bla to her and meant every word he obviously didn't feel the same conection/atraction he has twards you with her. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT in my opinion