I'm also a Virgo woman. =) Lucky us!
I don't think that "cold" is the proper description. We tend to be discerning about those we surround ourselves with and select as friends & such. I think this may seem stand-offish to some people, and we're then wrongly labeled cold.
There are some really great books out there - I have Sextrology. It breaks down each sign into male & female, and then further explains where it all came from, mind, body, soul, and sexuality. I found, for myself, it's about 95% accurate. =D
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