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    WanSiuLun Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 31, 2007, 07:47 AM
    Time apart.
    Hi,right now I am on a break with my girlfriend.It was my call as I see myself really confused lately.I don't know what it is but Im starting to doubt many things.And dwell on more of the smaller and negative aspects of her.Its been two weeks since we contacted,Im still lost because part of me tells me that I don't know if she is the one for me and my future,part of me says we are compatible in many ways.BTW been with her for year and half.We even discussed marriage.Is it because we are past that comfort zone.Is it because Im falling out of love.Also,I know I do more for her and love her more,but I know its fine since love is never equal,but lately Im tired of the giving not receiving.Have any of you went through this before?And please what can I do,I know at the end its up to me.Just to clarify,Im not seeing other girls and looking around,just using these weeks to find myself and what I want and see if I still want to be with her.
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    Aug 31, 2007, 07:53 AM
    Hello.

    I think you answered your own question... Your giving more then she is to the relationship. You say Love isn't equal but real Love is equal, it's giving 110%. Anything less is not Love it's going through the actions but it will never build and grow.

    Dennis777
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    Sep 1, 2007, 03:46 PM
    Dear Wan,

    To her, love is to be loved. You have the right to receive as well. It's very wise to take time think about your future with her.

    Don't spoil her any more;)
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