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    zozo_246 Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 30, 2009, 04:13 PM
    I think I did the stupidest thing ever?
    I've been seeing this guy for 3 weeks now and we've been out on 6 dates and everything was great I mean hed kiss me on the forehead and stuff like that and was so nice to me and the last time we were together he said he liked me and I said the same to him too and we texted the next day but I hvent heard from him for 4 days now and we usually text everyday so I text him this stupid messeage based on a stupid dvice:
    If care is a wave I give you sea,if respect is a leaf I give you a tree,if trust is a planet I give you galaxy. If "hi"is much then what's left?!
    And I haven't heard from him since.so do you think I should move on or what?
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    kp2171 Posts: 5,318, Reputation: 1612
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    Mar 30, 2009, 04:30 PM
    So you might have gone over the top.

    Who hasn't early on in a relationship?

    If that is what drives him away, then he didn't have the stomach for all the bumps and diversions that all relationships experience.

    Step back and wait.

    If he isn't willing to chase you hard, then all you did was call his bluff a little early.

    Seriously.

    You might have gone over the top a little early, but... and I only speak for myself... when a woman told me of her desires... when she pushed me to the wall... most of the time I found this arousing... enticing...

    So... maybe you escalated it a little too soon.

    So what?

    If he cannot deal with your liking him Large then he isn't ready for you.

    That might suck, but its reality.

    And you can deal with reality.

    I've loved more than one woman who wasn't ready for me.

    Man... that just sucks... but its OK. Its reality.

    Step back and wait.

    See what he does.

    If he comes back, tease him and then make him chase you.

    If he doesn't come back... well.. you can tease him or you can walk away.

    But don't beat yourself up too much.

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