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    lovestruck07 Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 5, 2007, 10:58 AM
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    I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and when we first started he was always calling me and wanting to be with me, and now I feel like he doesn't care about me at all. When we go out I sometimes feel like he doesn't give me enough attention and then other times he can be so nice and sweet, I don't know why he's being like this. Should I end it?

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    Jan 5, 2007, 11:07 AM
    Could the honeymoon period of the relationship be over? It is common that once you become comfortable with each other that the sparks fade. But do you mean that he is ignorning you and giving other people attention
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    Jan 5, 2007, 11:09 AM
    No its not that he ignores me he'll come up and kiss me or hug me or some things like that but mean even though we are comfortable around each other he should still care about me or act like he does
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    Jan 5, 2007, 11:15 AM
    I guess that is what I call comfortable. My husband might not open car doors for me or hold my hand all the time in public, but I know that he loves me. When you are alone does he act more intimate and loving then in public? Some people (myself included) have a hard time showing affection in public.
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    Jan 5, 2007, 11:17 AM
    Yes when we're alone he's different but he's never had a hard time being affectionate before, and I mean he should still call me during the week to see how I'm doing, I feel like I care more
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    Jan 6, 2007, 10:21 AM
    You're just the comfortable part of a relationship. You aren't trying to figure each other out anymore. I'd let him know if you want him to call you. Also if he's like any guy he's probably clueless about you feel anyway.
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    Jan 22, 2007, 05:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lovestruck07
    i've been with my bf for about 6 months adn when we first started out he was always calling me and wanting to be with me, and now i feel like he doens't care about me at all. when we go out i sometimes feel like he doesn't give me enough attention and then other times he can be so nice and sweet, i don't know why hes being like this. Should i end it?

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    You should talk about it. Communication is the best treatment. Mayb he doesn't realize he isn't paying you enough attention. There's one way to find out how he really feels towards you, just tell him how you feel and see what he has to say.
    Good luck!

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