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    Jan 8, 2012, 08:55 PM
    I need some relationship help... PLEASE
    Okay, so I was living with my friend and me and this girl started dating, we didn't live in the same town at the moment, but we did go to the same school before, but we didn't really talk much, she added me on Facebook one day so I added her back. We started talking for about 3 weeks then I asked her out, she said yes. We started talking on the phone and computer and stuff more, but not hanging out in person. Around 2 months later, I moved back into my parents house for about 3-4 months, but then I got kicked out... family problems... she offered me to come live with her and her family, so I went to stay there.
    I've lived here for about 5-6 months now, and our relationship was good, we had some arguments and disagreements.. but one day, she went with her aunt for a week, and randomlly messaged me saying she needs a break.. so I tried to talk to her about it, but she wouldn't talk about it. The day she came back, she seemed fine, like nothing happened. So that night we cuddled in the bed, watched a movie... and Had sex (sorry if it's TMI) but later that night, she seemed upset, and we argued... then she said she needed time, again.. so it's been about a week now, and I've tried to talk to her about it, and we do talk about it, she says she "needs to find out who she is before she can be in a relationship", I respect that. But I still live in her house.

    We still watch movies, in the bedroom, she still cooks for me, calls me hun and hunny still, occasinaly holds my hand, and cuddles with me sometimes, she even kissed me a couple times. But every time I ask if she's made up her mind, she says no, she needs more time.

    She says that There's a chance that we might get back together... I think we will, but I'm just confused :/

    CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME?
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    Jan 9, 2012, 09:15 AM
    Do you have any plans of getting your own place? She obviously has a lot going on in her mind. You can try to ask her to open up to you, but you can't force her to open up.

    For now, I suggest you find a way to get your own place, you can't keep living off her parents.
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    Jan 9, 2012, 02:15 PM
    Well she keeps suggesting I live here//
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    Jan 10, 2012, 03:00 PM
    But do you plan on living there forever? There must be a time where you would want to have your own place?
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    Jan 10, 2012, 09:13 PM
    Oh, well of course I plan on getting my own place soon, hoping to get a job this month, and make some money and get my own place, me and the ex are doing a little better now.

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