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Jan 5, 2013, 03:20 PM
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I slept with my friends boyfriend.
I have slept with my friends boyfirend. I am 22, he is a little older. Also she has a child with him. I am not so sure what to do HEEEEELLLLLPP.
And no, I am not looking for sympathy!
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Jan 5, 2013, 03:40 PM
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She's not your friend anymore and you and her baby daddy will suffer the consequences.
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Jan 5, 2013, 03:51 PM
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Yeah I understand that but she does not no as off yet. And I do think off her as a good friend (its obvs the people reading won't think I am good friend) but I am always there for her, yes I have mad a big big mistake
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Jan 5, 2013, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted by hannah2013
yeah i understand that but she does not no as off yet. and i do think off her as a good friend (its obvs the people reading wont think i am good friend) but i am always there for her, yes i have mad a big big mistake
Obviously,you are not a good friend and her boyfriend isn't faithful either. I feel bad for the baby and its mother in this situation.
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Jan 5, 2013, 04:18 PM
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Yes so do aye, I don't think its good and clever I am ashamed of it, you don't understand how bad I feel
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Jan 5, 2013, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted by hannah2013
yes so do aye, i dont think its good and clever iam ashamed of it, you dont understand how bad i feel
Sorry, what are you going to do about it?
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Jan 5, 2013, 04:23 PM
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I don't no that's why I posted on here to see if some one can help me or give me some advice with out judging is, I feel sooo bad I love her little boy as well
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Jan 5, 2013, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted by hannah2013
i dont no thats why i posted on here to see if some one can help me or give me some advice with out judging is, i feel sooo bad i love her little boy as well
Tell her what happened. That's all you can do. You didn't feel bad when you did it. Why now?
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Jan 5, 2013, 04:54 PM
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How do you no I never felt bad while it happened, and yes I did I told him that
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Jan 5, 2013, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted by hannah2013
how do you no i never felt bad while it happend, and yes i did i told him that
If you felt bad, it wouldn't have happened. You would have avoided the situation.
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Entomology Expert
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Jan 5, 2013, 05:12 PM
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Good friends don't do things like this to their friend... so that says something about you.
Tell her. She should be made aware of how good of a friend you are and how wonderful and trustworthy her boyfriend is.
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Jan 5, 2013, 05:14 PM
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I come on here to ask and seek for advise not to be judged
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Education Expert
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Jan 5, 2013, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted by hannah2013
i come on here to ask and seek for advise not to be judged
This is our advice and you don't get to decide whether we judge you or not. No one is going to pat you on the back for what you did.
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Jan 5, 2013, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted by hannah2013
i come on here to ask and seek for advise not to be judged
LOL... you knew it was wrong but you did it anyway. Now you are looking for someone here to give you some magical way for you to loose the guilt. Not going to happen.
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Jan 5, 2013, 05:26 PM
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Ha no I don't want I pat on the back what I have done is wrong, and I no its wrong, aye also forgot to mension she (my friend) has done this to me before and I forgived her, she knows her boyfriend cheats all the time as well, but yes I am on the wrong totally, meybays I done it for pay back and I might just tell her,
Oh why did I no think off that,
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Jan 5, 2013, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by hannah2013
oh why did i no think off that,
Think of what? Stealing him away?
Think about it now and show us why we shouldn't judge you.
Bottom line, you had a choice, he didn't just trip and his penis slipped in you. You decided to have sex with him. Too bad you didn't think it through before it happened, then you wouldn't have to be thinking about what to do next.
Things like this always come out, so don't bother trying to keep it a secret. Tell her, and reap the consequences, but really, do you expect her to forgive you, or him? Would you?
You did the crime, now put on your big girl panties and face the consequences.
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Jan 5, 2013, 05:49 PM
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Well I am was been sarcastic about that comment, and aye found yours quite funny tbh. In case you never read the earlyier comment, yes she has done it to me before and yes I did forgive her, so like a said it might just be payback time,
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Jan 5, 2013, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by hannah2013
well i am was been sarcastic about that comment, and aye found yours quite funny tbh. incase you never read the earlyier comment, yes she has done it to me b4 and yes i did forgive her, so like a sed it might just be payback time,
Well, you two are such moral people. I wish I had friends like you (now that's sarcasm).
Fine, then tell her "you slept with my boyfriend, so I slept with yours. Let's still be friends", and see what happens.
Frankly, with friends like the two of you, who needs enemies?
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Jan 5, 2013, 06:24 PM
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Ha ha well they do say what goes around comes around don't they? So it has
All yous no is I slept with him you don't no that rest soooo!!
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Jan 5, 2013, 06:29 PM
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Originally Posted by hannah2013
ha ha well they do say what goes around comes around dont they?? so it has
all yous no is i slept with him you dont no that rest soooo!!!
I wouldn't act all proud of myself, if I were you. I'd love for you to go back through all your posts and count the misspelled words. Let me know how many you find.
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