[foreveru]

Should I wish my ex boyfriend happy birthday after 2 months breakup and no contact

[cowboyjai]

How over him are you? Do you have another guy in your life?

I probs wouldn't... he might txt back... then you might txt back... you might hear something you don't want to... it might cause drama. Ask yourself if anything positive (for you) could come out of sending this txt message. Then ask yourself if anything negative (for you) could come out of sending it.

[wikedjuggalo]

It will probably set you back in the healing process. Because if they respond, then you get false hope. And none of us need false hope. It hurts and it sucks but its for the best.

[kuulski]

Don't do it. You will be better either way in the long run for it.

[Romefalls19]

No, do not do it! You aren't over him and yet you are going to send him a b-day wish hoping he will respond to your message. Do yourself a favor and just stop

[talaniman]

No Way!! His birthday is just an excuse to break No Contact.

[happy_jester]

His birthday is just an excuse to break No Contact.

Right again,Tal! Classic mistake of breaking the no contact rule.

[xcarriecookex]

should i wish my ex bf happy birthday after 2 months breakup n no contact

Ok read the other quotes. I will only say one thing, 3 months is not a long time, if you still love him DO NOT SEND A CARD if you are moving on DO NOT SEND A CARD if you want to be friends then I would send a card, keep it simple though.

I guess what's the harm hey

[brkfstatiffs]

I think you can send him a text that says "happy birthday" and that's it. But don't expect a reply from him other then "thanks" if anything. I think sending a simple text is good, just because you guys are done doesn't mean you can't wish him a happy birthday. Unless of course the breakup was really messy and you don't want have anything to do with him, then don't do anything. Personally, I think it hurts when someone doesn't wish you a happy birthday. My ex didn't this year so now I'm not planning on anything either.

[Alty]

No contact means NO CONTACT! Don't do anything, just leave it alone.

Good luck.

[MissHaven]

Good question!
Im going through the same thing right now, as I type this its my Xs-bday... we ended on an open ended note and we are still friends- he made that an option :) and I took it... Im not over him and probably won't be for a very long time-so Im going all out... birthday card, presents and I'm going out to his favorite spot tnite. Im getting all positive things out of this because the worst he can do is be mad at me for being nice and sweet. I go by 2 simple rules: if your going to do revenge:kill it with kindness and 2! Never forget you were friends bfr you got into a relationship & your back after a break up to the friend stage so why shldnt you wish him/her "happy birthday"?
For all you negative people out there... I maybe wrong in what I doing-or so you think but I know I'm longing for closer and my own satisfaction-that yet again Im right :) and he knows it that once again he ****d up LOL